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The In-Between Weeks

There is a stretch of February that does not belong to anything. Winter has used up most of what it has to say. The novelty of the snow is long gone, the holidays are far enough back that nobody talks about them anymore, and spring is still distant enough that nothing about it feels real yet. These are the in-between weeks. They are not a season. They are a kind of pause.

I used to find this stretch hard. There is no project in it, no clear thing to lean into, and the daylight, while gaining, is still not really enough to feel like a force. The mornings are dark. The afternoons go gray. The yard is the same yard it has been for two months and the birds are mostly the same birds.

A Season Without a Name

What I have figured out over the last few years is that the in-between weeks are doing something even when it does not look like they are. They are the only time in the year when the household, and the yard, and the body, are all idling at the same time. Spring will demand things. Summer will demand more. The fall, in its own way, is busy. Winter through the holidays is busy. The two or three weeks between Groundhog Day and the first real signs of spring are the only stretch where nothing in particular is being asked of anyone, and the trick is to let that be what it is rather than trying to fill it.

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I have started using the in-between weeks for a small list of things that benefit from low pressure. The mending I have already written about. Reading, which has been catching up after the busy fall. A long-overdue sort of the boxes in the basement, which I do not enjoy but which I can manage in this stretch in a way I cannot manage in May. A few short letters to people I have meant to write to for a year. None of these are large. They are the projects that have been waiting for a quiet shelf to sit on.

The Yard Is Preparing Too

The yard is doing the same thing. The cardinals are pairing up but not nesting. The chickadees are singing more but not yet building. The whole bird community is in a kind of preparation mode, all of it aware that something is coming but not yet acting on it. Cardinals begin singing in February for territorial reasons that will matter in April. The February work is anticipatory. So is mine, in its way.

I do think there is something to be said for noticing this stretch by name. We have names for the loud seasons and we mostly do not have names for the quiet ones. Late winter, in the upper latitudes, has been called all kinds of things, mud season being the one I have most heard, but mud season is the very end of this stretch, not the middle. The middle has no name I have ever heard. It is just February.

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Watching the Sky Through Bare Branches

The other thing I have started doing in the in-between weeks is paying more attention to the sky. The trees are still bare. The dome of sky overhead is more visible from the yard than it will be in any other month except maybe November, and the cold air is often clear enough that the sunsets pick up a long orange wash that you do not get in summer haze. The geometry of it is the same as any other sunset, but the visibility is better, and a still cold afternoon in mid-February can give you the kind of sky you remember.

If you find yourself in this stretch and you are restless, I would not try to make it into something. I would let it be what it is. Pick one small thing the loud seasons do not have room for and do it slowly. Sit by the window. Watch the sky. The year will pick up on its own in two or three weeks, and these will turn out to have been the weeks that gave it room.

I have been in the in-between weeks for a while now, and I find I am no longer impatient for them to end, which is, in its own quiet way, the whole point of having noticed them at all.